Musings, Wheelchair life

12 Steps to Becoming a Confident Wheelchair User (pun intended)

I recently got a new wheelchair, well I got it almost a year ago, but things take time to get used to. You may have heard my moans. It wasnโ€™t until I got my new wheels, a chair totally different than any Iโ€™ve had before, that I really considered the impact my wheelchair has on… Continue reading 12 Steps to Becoming a Confident Wheelchair User (pun intended)

Accessible Toilets, Musings

Talking Toilets With Invisibly Me – Guest Post

We are all guilty of having given the odd inward eye roll when we see someone walking out of the accessible toilets. I know I have, briefly doubting their need for using them, silently accusing them of just not wanting to queue, skipping the wait, but then stopping myself. Feeling ashamed. Iโ€™m a bad person.… Continue reading Talking Toilets With Invisibly Me – Guest Post

Achievements, Musings

Aims Accomplished โ€“ Aims Not Resolutions 2020

January may not have started off well, flu really is evil. Iโ€™ve ended the month on a high though and as D-Ream sang โ€˜things can only get betterโ€™. Of course, the first event I properly left the house for, after leaving hospital, was afternoon tea. I couldnโ€™t have planned it. Well I did, but you… Continue reading Aims Accomplished โ€“ Aims Not Resolutions 2020

Musings

Friends, Flu and Frustrations

January is usually the longest month of the year, feeling like it has at least 372 days in it. January 2020 has felt quite different. Yes itโ€™s 2020. Iโ€™m still having trouble typing and saying it. Sounds like the future doesnโ€™t it?! Twenty Twenty. Well if we are in the future, it still feels pretty… Continue reading Friends, Flu and Frustrations

Musings

If We Were Having Festive Coffee In Limbo – Life Musing #4

If we were having coffee you may need a pad and paper to take my order. Iโ€™m the kind of person you regret asking if theyโ€™d like a coffee while out, because when given the option I have the works. Plus Iโ€™m fussy and awkward and rather specific. Itโ€™s not all my fault though. Iโ€™ll… Continue reading If We Were Having Festive Coffee In Limbo – Life Musing #4

Festivals and Gigs, Musings, Norfolk, Restaurants and Cafes, Suffolk

Praise You Like I Should

People tell me good access should be a given, that places/businesses/people shouldnโ€™t be praised for letting me in their building, a ramp shouldnโ€™t mean a gold star. I agree. Access should just be a thing that happens. Not a topic of discussion, a cause for complaint or reward. Everyone should be able to experience everything.… Continue reading Praise You Like I Should

Festivals and Gigs

Gig Going – Like Anyone Else

โ€˜Like anyone elseโ€™ Those are words Iโ€™ve longed to hear for a lifetime. That they should even be considered news in 2019 is unacceptable yet not all that shocking when youโ€™re in my wheels. Having a disability doesnโ€™t mean I want special treatment, equality is all I ever ask for. More than anything I wish… Continue reading Gig Going – Like Anyone Else

Musings

If We Were Having Coffee – Life Musing #3

If we were having coffee I might struggle to find a suitable table. The day after I wrote this post about chips that included a mini rant about tables, my rage got multiplied. I went into the world famous coffee chain I have a love/hate relationship with (Starbucks) to find theyโ€™d had a refurb. Some… Continue reading If We Were Having Coffee – Life Musing #3

Achievements, Gadgets, Musings

Crafting With A Physical Disability – Finding My Thing

Iโ€™m a fidget. Iโ€™m not very good at doing nothing. If Iโ€™m watching tv Iโ€™m crafting, if Iโ€™m crafting Iโ€™m watching tv. I can even craft and read now thanks to my audiobook discovery. For somebody that canโ€™t move very much, Iโ€™m never still. My hands have to be kept busy, and if theyโ€™re not… Continue reading Crafting With A Physical Disability – Finding My Thing